
The Monster Was Never Under the Bed: Gender-Based Violence as a Structure of Power
1 in 3 women worldwide will experience physical or sexual violence in her lifetime.(World Health Organisation, 2021) 1 in 8 women has experienced rape or sexual assault in childhood. (UNICEF, 2024) 6 in 10 female homicide victims are killed by intimate partners or relatives, whereas for men, only about 1 in 10 homicides occur within the private sphere. (UN Women, 2025) These are not rare tragedies. They are patterns. For generations, we have taught children to fear monsters under the bed, imagining creatures that hide in darkness, wait in closets, ready to emerge at night. But the statistics tell a different story. The danger is not imaginary nor confined to shadows, and it is rarely a stranger. The monster was never under the bed. It exists in homes, workplaces, schools, courtrooms, and digital platforms. It is normalised through everyday jokes, excused by culture, shielded by institutions, and minimised as “isolated incidents.” Gender-based violence is not an anomaly in otherwise healthy systems. It is embedded in structures of power that shape how societies define masculinity, authority, credibility, and control. Treating gender-based violence as deviant behaviour, the action of a few disturbed individuals, is to obscure both its scale and its persistence.






